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Comm 4323/5223:

COMMUNICATION IN PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS

Instructor: Dr. Hayes                          Office Hours:  M 4:30-5:30, T/Th. 11:00-12:30
Office Phone:  972-2816                    Email:  mhayes@astate.edu 
Office: 364 Comm. Bld.                     Website: http://www.clt.astate.edu/mhayes

 Course Objectives: This course is designed to help you:

·         become acquainted with some of the fundamental issues, concepts and theories involved in the study of close relationships

·         to be able to think critically and sensitively about your close relationships

·         to become more competent in creating and sustaining healthy close relationships

Text/Readings: Miller, R. S. & Perlman, D. (2009). Intimate Relationships (5th ed.) Boston, MA: McGraw-Hill.

 See additional readings below.

Assignments and Grading :

The grading scale is 90 % = A, 80 % = B, 70% = C, 60% =  D, below 60% = F. Please keep track of your points below.

Undergraduate Students:

Exam 1:                                  /100 pts.

Exam 2:                                  /100 pts.

Participation:                           /100 pts. (exercises/activities/in-class participation)

Presentation:                           /100 pts

Total:                                       400 pts.

Graduate Students:

Exam 1:                                  /100 pts.

Exam 2:                                  /100 pts.

Participation:                           /100 pts. (exercises/activities/in-class participation)

Teaching Session:                  /100 pts

Presentation:                           /100 pts

Total:                                       500 pts.

Exams: (All Students)

There will be two exams. The format of the exams will be some combination of multiple-choice, true-false, and matching questions and possibly some short answer or essay questions essay. Make-up exams will only be given in the case of a documented emergency or illness. All make-up exams will be in essay format and will be scheduled at your instructor's discretion. Exams will cover material presented in lecture and in the text.

Group Presentation: (All students)

You will form groups early in the semester. In the last three weeks of class, your group will “teach” a class period about a particular relational context, complete with lecture and class activities and visuals. Guidelines will be provided.

Teaching Session: (Graduate Students Only)

Graduate students will be responsible for preparing for and “teaching” one class period during weeks eleven or twelve. Graduate students should choose one of the topic areas listed for those weeks and prepare a lesson plan around those topics. Your lesson plan should be based on primary research on the topic of your choosing. Be sure to schedule time for one activity or exercise. Include some type of visual aid. All topics should be approved by the instructor by the first exam date. Lesson plans should be approved in advance before presenting them also.

 Participation: (All students)

You will be awarded points for various exercises, activities and short papers due throughout the semester. These points cannot be made up if you miss an in-class activity.

Attendance: You will find it difficult to do well in this course unless you attend all lectures and discussions. Poor attendance and/or frequent tardiness will affect your participation grade negatively. You are responsible for all the information presented in class even if you are absent or late. Make-up work is only allowed in the case of an absence due to attendance at a university sponsored event. Proof of attendance is required. You are also responsible for keeping up with any changes that occur to the syllabus/schedule of topics. Changes will be announced in class—keep up with them.

Tentative Schedule of Topics:

Note: This schedule is subject to change. See above section on “attendance.”

Unit One:  Importance of Relationships

Week One:                  Orientation to the course

(Jan. 13,15)                 Ch. 1, The Building Blocks of Relationships

Week Two:                  Socio-evolutionary perspectives on relationships:

(Jan. 20, 22)                Ch. 3, Attraction

                                    Article: Epstein (see below)

 Unit Two: Lifecycle of Relationships

Week Three:               Relationship Development:

(Jan. 27, 29)                Ch. 4, Social Cognition

Week Four:                 Relationship Development cont.

(Feb. 3, 5)                   Ch. 8, Love

Week Five:                 

(Feb. 10, 12)               Ch. 6, Interdependency

                                    Article: Weigel (see below)

                                    Article: White (see below)

Week Six:                   Ch. 14, Maintaining and Repairing Relationships

(Feb. 17, 19)                          

Week Seven:              EXAM 1

(Feb. 24, 26)               Ch. 13, The Dissolution and Loss of Relationships

                                    Article: Emmers (see below)

 Unit Three:               The Dark Side of Communication

Week Eight:                Ch. 11, Conflict          
(Mar. 3, 5)                   Ch 5, Dysfunctional Communication and What to Do About It

Week Nine:                 Ch. 10, Stresses and Strains

(Mar. 10, 12)              

 Unit Four:                  Contexts

Week Ten:                  Case Study: Film

(Mar . 17, 19) 

Week Eleven:             No class, Spring Break

(Mar. 24, 26)  
Week Twelve:             Film Discussion

(Mar. 31, Apr. 2)        Special Topics

Week Thirteen:           Presentations

 (Apr. 7, 9)                  

 Week Fourteen:          Presentations

(Apr. 14, 16)

Week Fifteen:             Graduate Student Presentations

(Apr. 21, 23)

Week Sixteen:            Study Day is April 28th

(Apr. 28, 30)                See Exam Schedule for Final Exam time

 Readings: (As assigned)

The following articles can be found online by accessing our library's 'article databases.'

Search for the following full-text articles at the 'Communication and Mass Media

Complete' database available through the library.

Articles:

Emmers, T. M. (1996). Romantic relationship disengagement and coping rituals. Communication Research Reports,
    13
, 8-18.

Epstein, R. (2007). The truth about online dating. Scientific American Mind, 18, 8-35.
    (Get this from “Academic Search Complete” database on  our library’s website)

Fisher, H. (2000). Lust, attraction, attachment: Biology and evolution of the three primaryemotions for mating,    
    reproduction, and parenting. Journal of Sex Education and Therapy, 25, 96-103.
    (Database: Academic Search Premier) Also try:
http://www.lawrence.library.astate.edu:2707ehost/detail?vid=9&hid=13&sid=e75b5b50-b75c-44af-b3c3-3702cb76f0e9%40sessionmgr7

Weigel, D. (2003). A communication approach to the construction of commitment in the early years of marriage.
    Journal of Family
Communication, 3, 1-19.

White, C. H. (2004). Welsh widows’ descriptions of their relationships: Themes of relational experience in
    long-term marriage. Communication Studies, 55, 1-13.


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